Polygamy studies are never done; there are always pros and cons. This study aims to
reveal the lives of polygamous marriages between habibs with ahwal women in Banjar
district. This study uses a qualitative approach. Data collection is done through
interview, observation and documentary techniques. The study results indicate that
polygamous marriages performed with the knowledge and consent of the first wife
create a harmonious polygamous marital life between the habibs and women; they
interact and communicate, their lives are peaceful, and there is a loving and affectionate
relationship between wives and husbands. Polygamous marriages performed without
the knowledge and consent of the first wife are not harmonious; conflicts often arise
between the wives because they compete against each other to g